Thursday, December 10, 2020

Toddler to Teen Tips


Its not about keeping them safe in all possible ways more than helping them learn how to negotiate the unsafe in as many ways possible.
Unless its a predetermined immediate danger, the word (Now!) should find scarcer use if always prefaced by a patient timer in agreement of expectation, having appropriate consequence and follow through.
(No!) Can be desensitizing if over abused, reserved for true danger, and explained with age aware understanding, it can truly save lives.
Project more questions and options for the unknowns in them rather than the often too ready answers known in you.
Praise personal pride of performance over preaching projected perfection. Excellence is a big bang expansion of a singularity in the soul. It cannot be injected and expected, just promoted and appreciated.
Always reserve a ready eye to teach with story, play and song. Texts and tweets can more often wait than missed opportunity to grow greatness, intelligence and bond.
I find the passive physical is loves best instructor. They will learn less to fear of life, if touch is left to the calm of need and choice.
The active and engaged mental is disciplines best. They will love much more of word and wisdom, if your wisdom is built on deeply having heard the meaning of every said and unsaid word.

-Hermit King-

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